circumstantially trying to determine what is right for them. “Well, Pastor, marrying this girl must be the will of God—otherwise I wouldn’t have met her.” No, the will of God is perfectly clear: “Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers” (2 Corinthians 6:14). Or how about this: “Pastor, it must have been God’s will for her to have ministered to me in my loneliness and discouragement, otherwise I wouldn’t have met her.” Again, the word of God is perfectly clear: “You shall not commit adultery” (Exodus